What I’ve come to realize in the last few months is if you keep reliving in the past, explaining over&over why you are the way you are, you’ll never get passed it. You’ll continue to live in the anger, sadness, happiness, etc of then, when you should be living NOW. They were once great times of your life, but if pain&sadness overcame it, it’s time to go. Accept it the way it is & forgive. Embrace the memories & remember only the good times.
Letting go & moving on is one of the hardest things to do, but it’s been one of best things I’ve done for myself. I still catch myself, getting nostalgic & missing them, & then angry&sad as to what happened. But I don’t dwell too long in it. It gets better everyday, & surely, since it’s been a couple of months now, those negative moments aren’t too strong now.
I still got a long way to go though, Going to try to tumblr my journey more often. Watch me as I grow!
★ (1) November 12, 2013